Thursday, January 17, 2008

Gifts, given and received


I am in a helping profession. Maybe some people think Real Estate agents' goals are to protect their own interests, but I disagree. The vast majority of people who came to this business joined it because they wanted to help other people reach their goals. There are a lot of pleasers (read: incredibly giving people) in Real Estate. Honestly, all you have to do is look at how these people respond when they see a true need. There have been many times when I have seen the community step up to the plate to help a colleague in need. If you did a survey of Realtors to see how many support very vital causes, both financially and personally, I am certain most people would be amazed. This is truly one under-rated profession.


This profession saw a boom in the numbers of new agents in the past 7 years. It seems everyone wanted to be a Realtor. Many people who joined in search of quick cash will find out soon, this business is misunderstood. In my opinion we will begin to see the number of Realtor dwindle as reality sets in. A true professional puts their clients interests above their own, and as the market tightens that will be difficult for some people to do. Those who hang in there will seek solutions to the problems the market presents, they will assist any way they can. And as they do this, they can overcome obstacles for their client, they can help them achieve their Real Estate goals. It is through this truly special kind of relationship that I have come to love this job. It is because of these relationships that I have found some lasting friendships.


Often we over look the help that is right in front of us. I certainly could name one or two people in my personal life who find it hard to accept help. But what we discover is when we do accept the help thats offered, you are in fact giving the other person your own gift. When a gift is accepted and appreciated, fulfillment follows.